Lynn Sheinkin (1943-2012) cared deeply about human rights, social justice, and being present to the people around her. A psychotherapist in private practice in Rockland County, Lynn joined the staff of Rockland Family Shelter in 1999 and went on to serve as the Deputy Executive Director of Programming and Services at Center for Safety & Change.
Born in Brooklyn, NY, to Risse and Abe Goodstat, Lynn grew up with an “intolerance of injustice” according to her older brother Paul, while younger brother Gene remembers her teaching him to dance while watching American Bandstand. Those poles capture something essential about who Lynn remained — fighter and nurturer.
Lynn graduated Brooklyn College at age 21, having already been caretaker to her mother through the last stages of her life. The same year, Lynn married medical student David Sheinkin. Lynn started her professional life as a NYC public school English teacher before having her first child. Lynn and David eventually settled in Rockland County to raise their growing family. Lynn then returned to school and earned an MSW from Columbia University.
After her husband was killed in a plane crash in 1981, Lynn raised their four children on her own, with focused devotion. As her public role expanded, Lynn’s nurturing, too, remained a feminist force.
For many years, she was an organizer and area coordinator for Amnesty International, working to obtain the release of prisoners of conscience. With Amnesty, she served as a delegate to the United Nations Fourth World Conference on the Status of Women, in Beijing. She was also an active member of Rockland National Organization of Women (NOW), supporting gender equality.
At Center for Safety & Change, through funding from the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) Lynn created and coordinated the nationally acclaimed DELTA project to combat violence against women. One of her favorite components of the project was the creation of SAEDA, (Student Activist Ending Dating Abuse) a peer led group to educate high school students about ending violence against women, and other forms of oppression. In 2011, Lynn Sheinkin received the NOW Caroline Lexow Babcock Award, acknowledging her leadership role in enhancing Rockland County’s domestic violence prevention and intervention services.
Lynn was a member of the Clinical Faculty of Fordham Graduate School of Social Services. Her publications, giving insight into her passions, included: co-authored with Christina Pratt, “Organizational Change from the Bottom of the Power Hierarchy” and “Creating Environments for Gender Equity: A school-based model for transformation;” and with Gail Golden, “Therapy with Women in the Later Stages of Life: A Symbolic Press,” centering aging women’s spiritual needs. Toward the end of her life, she was interested in studying autism and child development, inspired by a beloved grandchild.
Lynn had a five-year battle with cancer. She remained engaged, hopeful, and angry at the interruption of her plans. Today Lynn has five grandchildren, all of whom her fierce love continues to shape.
Meet Lynn Sheinkin in the video below!